The Slow Return of ErosToday a client said something to me that was almost word for word what I’d written in my own journal a few weeks ago. So I’m going to write…Apr 13, 2022Apr 13, 2022
Four Common Bypass Traps to Watch Out ForSpiritual bypassing is when we neglect the human in favor of the spirit, completely missing the point that the human experience IS a…Apr 9, 2022Apr 9, 2022
The Cringe of Going All-InOne pattern a lot of people seem eager to confess to me about is the pattern of “going all-in and losing myself in a relationship.”Mar 16, 2022Mar 16, 2022
Your Desire is More Important Than Their NeedIf other people’s needs conflict with your desires, follow your desires. Others deserve to have their needs met by someone who desires to…Jan 27, 2022Jan 27, 2022
What a Ride on a Rollercoaster Taught Me about LifeI was a teenager when I first decided to try to relax on a rollercoaster.Nov 30, 2021Nov 30, 2021
Why I look for Red Flags in myselfI do not look for red flags in others’ behavior. That’s a losing game — it keeps me focused on the other person and whether their behavior…Oct 20, 2021Oct 20, 2021
Are you tolerating the intolerable?Your disrespectful behavior is intolerable.Jul 13, 2021Jul 13, 2021
Ten things I like about my Open RelationshipSomeone asked me if I “liked” being in my open relationship.Jul 13, 20211Jul 13, 20211
Where do I go after all this healing?I work with people who have fully opened to themselves, who are facing themselves but have no idea where to go from there.Jul 13, 2021Jul 13, 2021
